tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-60974307411102929812024-03-05T06:37:24.614-08:00A Beautiful LifeThe Adventures of a Boy With Down Syndrome and The Family Who Adores HimStephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07632541487016020760noreply@blogger.comBlogger34125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6097430741110292981.post-49578626540875490182010-05-13T16:22:00.000-07:002010-05-13T16:22:41.183-07:00Goodbye for Now...KindaPlease join me here: <a href="http://muslimmamatheblog.blogspot.com/">http://<span class="goog-spellcheck-word" style="background: yellow;">muslimmamatheblog</span>.<span class="goog-spellcheck-word" style="background: yellow;">blogspot</span>.com</a><br />
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After much thought and soul searching, I've decided to merge my two blogs into one. I started this blog with the intention and hope that I might raise some awareness about Down syndrome and also connect with the amazing community of mommies who are out there in the <span class="goog-spellcheck-word" style="background: yellow;">blogosphere</span>. I hope that instead of having two fairly neglected blogs I might just be able to pull of one that is pretty decent.<br />
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There are several reasons for this decision, the first being first and foremost about time constraints. This fall, I plan on returning back to school to obtain my masters in nursing with the hope of someday becoming a family nurse practitioner. It's already quite difficult to find the time to post with my very busy family life and work.<br />
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I'm thinking I might change the name of Muslim Mama (found here) to "A Beautiful Life". I gave this blog it's name because I truly do feel that <span class="goog-spellcheck-word" style="background: yellow;">Yusef's</span> life is a beautiful one, one that has every right to exist, one that is perfect, and one whose story deserves to be told. That absolutely hasn't changed.<br />
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So please, please, please come join me there. I know I'll continue to follow all of you amazing moms and beautiful children out there.<br />
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So do you all got that <a href="http://muslimmamatheblog.blogspot.com/">URL</a> yet? Here it is again, in case you missed it <a href="http://muslimmamatheblog.blogspot.com/">http://<span class="goog-spellcheck-word" style="background: yellow;">muslimmamatheblog</span>.<span class="goog-spellcheck-word" style="background: yellow;">blogspot</span>.com</a>Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07632541487016020760noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6097430741110292981.post-72962882267666187702010-05-02T22:19:00.000-07:002010-05-02T22:20:22.059-07:00Thick SkinWords can hurt, they can pierce your heart and bring tears to your eyes. Once they are said, they can never be undone, they travel into space having passed over the one they were to leave behind, broken.<br />
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I sometimes wish this blog were anonymous. I could post all my true feelings and no one would ever be the wiser to my true identity. Someone has hurt me deeply with their words. A phrase said in passing, not a second thought given to anyone but me, but I was left there stunned. The meanness of these words, the utter disregard for all people who were born different, intellectually challenged, special needs, whatever phrase you may choose, but oh, not that one. Not that one.<br />
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It was not said by a mean person. It was not meant in regards to my son. But they are there, those words, spit out into the world and I don't believe I can ever see this person the same. <br />
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How did I get here? How did I become the champion of all people like my son, those who society has cast aside and willingly disparages with its words? How far will it go? Will I lose people I hold close in this world over these words?<br />
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Will I ever be able to cast off these words and toss them aside? Do I want to? I don't know right now. I can never go back to the world I used to know.Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07632541487016020760noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6097430741110292981.post-79142367543303370362010-04-21T22:07:00.000-07:002010-04-22T00:21:20.984-07:00MRI and I'm Exhausted<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div>Yusef had his sedated MRI of the brain today. This is to make sure that there is no structural abnormality causing the seizures. I was quite nervous about it the night before. Frankly, I'm terrified they may find something there.. Something terrible, something we won't be able to fix..<br />
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It was nothing out of the ordinary. The day started out getting checked in and to our room. The nurses came in (they know us as the kids in our family are regulars) asked all their questions, then the doctors came in and asked all their questions and after two and half hours of this the real fun began.<br />
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</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">So nurse after nurse attempted to place an IV in my screaming boy. After numerous sticks and fishing around finally the IV was placed. Yusef cried like I had never seen him. He was so upset, heartbroken and bewildered. He cried until he had no fight left in him and just lay there head buried in my breast whimpering. I admit, I shed a few tears with him. I let my mind wander at what his future would hold. How many more mornings would we spend like this? My sweet boy. My love. I am your mother and yet I'm powerless to stop this.<br />
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After that, I pretty much went into auto mode. I remember going down to the MRI area and sitting there drained as the machine whirred and drummed out it's unnatural mechanical rhythm. You must remember, this hospital is where I work, and I know all the help there, know the area, and have been in that same room countless times as a nurse. Still, I couldn't of been more removed from it. For the first time in a long while, I saw things through the patients and families eyes--modern medicine, a miracle, yet horrendous and utterly unnatural. <br />
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</div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhGbJ9dBQMsjUj9If-SZW6BmwBNB0XxLvt1MO4IUYm9DZbdd2l0g1I9yXJx3RPu2g7VDyhoGMBxal-toN37T87LLIcbhvWVXAUhcqwHfE_QSByYTIUcmp_F6zwzR4N02gqTer74Zdy-n0d7/s1600/sleep_edited-3.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; cssfloat: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="428" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhGbJ9dBQMsjUj9If-SZW6BmwBNB0XxLvt1MO4IUYm9DZbdd2l0g1I9yXJx3RPu2g7VDyhoGMBxal-toN37T87LLIcbhvWVXAUhcqwHfE_QSByYTIUcmp_F6zwzR4N02gqTer74Zdy-n0d7/s640/sleep_edited-3.jpg" width="640" wt="true" /></a></div>Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07632541487016020760noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6097430741110292981.post-51641535700904467732010-04-18T20:03:00.000-07:002010-04-18T20:52:16.756-07:00Yusef's Eyes<div class="" style="CLEAR: both; BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; BORDER-TOP: medium none; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; TEXT-ALIGN: left">With all my babies, there was always some part of them that I was especially in love with. With Nathan, it was his elbows. He had the cutest little elbows, I can't explain it, but I just adored those elbows.</div><div class="separator" style="CLEAR: both; TEXT-ALIGN: left"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="CLEAR: both; TEXT-ALIGN: left">I especially love Yusef's eyes. There dark, liquid brown, almost black. They're large and expressive, framed by delicate lashes and brows that perk up when something interests him.</div><div class="separator" style="CLEAR: both; BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; BORDER-TOP: medium none; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; TEXT-ALIGN: left"><br /><a style="MARGIN-LEFT: 1em; MARGIN-RIGHT: 1em" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh9Fs65gJVa4I6UiYQXlCqA2y7lmXSdE2pr94V9BeORQNq_9OBNUZZVv13TSCdXK-ZuIyZCa6RKji1YvkizRTbOUtEfRZpvo84vAoYoBBt0GTc9E7QI9FaB31CNPxiqIi4r56CGdYtmlXZV/s1600/yusef+eyes.JPG" imageanchor="1"><img height="267" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh9Fs65gJVa4I6UiYQXlCqA2y7lmXSdE2pr94V9BeORQNq_9OBNUZZVv13TSCdXK-ZuIyZCa6RKji1YvkizRTbOUtEfRZpvo84vAoYoBBt0GTc9E7QI9FaB31CNPxiqIi4r56CGdYtmlXZV/s400/yusef+eyes.JPG" width="400" border="0" wt="true" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="CLEAR: both; BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; BORDER-TOP: medium none; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; TEXT-ALIGN: left"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="CLEAR: both; BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; BORDER-TOP: medium none; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; TEXT-ALIGN: left">Yesterday I went for my daily <s>torture</s> workout. The kids love going to the little day care center there and even though I'm not a big fan of torture, I enjoy it as well--a brief reprieve for the kids. Afterwards, in the car Zainah piped up with a question. </div><div class="separator" style="CLEAR: both; BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; BORDER-TOP: medium none; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; TEXT-ALIGN: left"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="CLEAR: both; BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; BORDER-TOP: medium none; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; TEXT-ALIGN: left">"Mama, does Yusef have Chinese eyes?"</div><div class="separator" style="CLEAR: both; BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; BORDER-TOP: medium none; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; TEXT-ALIGN: left">Me: "Who said that?"</div><div class="separator" style="CLEAR: both; BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; BORDER-TOP: medium none; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; TEXT-ALIGN: left">"That teacher lady".</div><div class="separator" style="CLEAR: both; BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; BORDER-TOP: medium none; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; TEXT-ALIGN: left"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="CLEAR: both; BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; BORDER-TOP: medium none; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; TEXT-ALIGN: left">I knew she was talking about the one of the girls that supervise the day care center. I prodded her a little more, but she then started rambling on about one of the little boys and how he dared to take her blue crayon during coloring time. It's apparently fairly difficult to get any accurate information out of a five year old mind.</div><div class="separator" style="CLEAR: both; BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; BORDER-TOP: medium none; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; TEXT-ALIGN: left"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="CLEAR: both; BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; BORDER-TOP: medium none; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; TEXT-ALIGN: left">I realize it was probably an innocent albeit ignorant obsevation that was made. I have to question the wisdom of saying something racially objectionable and in front of my daughter nonetheless.</div><div class="separator" style="CLEAR: both; BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; BORDER-TOP: medium none; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; TEXT-ALIGN: left"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="CLEAR: both; BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; BORDER-TOP: medium none; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; TEXT-ALIGN: left">I don't know. It bothered me. It makes me wonder if this is the beginning. The beginning of the comments and stares that I've so far been able to shield myself and my children from. </div><div class="separator" style="CLEAR: both; BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; BORDER-TOP: medium none; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; TEXT-ALIGN: left"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="CLEAR: both; BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; BORDER-TOP: medium none; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; TEXT-ALIGN: left">I also have to wonder what else was said...or thought...</div>Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07632541487016020760noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6097430741110292981.post-58612169841335933832010-04-09T22:39:00.000-07:002010-04-09T23:07:08.633-07:00Out With The Old, In With the NewWe finally saw the new peds neurologist for our second opinion and I have to say I'm quite impressed. He want to totally stop the Keppra and valpoic acid. He never uses valproic acid on kids less than 2 due to possible liver damage and he doesn't feel that Keppra is effective for IS (which I knew!) and doesn't see the point in using it. He's also upping the dose of his Topamax. Turns out the dose we're on is way too low, like and eighth of what Yusef should be taking to be therapeutic.<br /><br />We're also going to be doing an MRI soon just to make sure we're not missing something. It's always been assumed that the IS is due to DS since it's a huge risk factor, but the imaging is just to make sure we're not missing some type of structural abnormality of the brain.<br /><br />He also wants me to call him weekly with updates. I love this! A doctor who wants to be bothered!<br /><br />He just seems so much more up to date and knowledgeable. So it looks like we'll be turning our care over to him from this moment on. I'm so hopeful and I'm sure we're making the right decision.<br /><br />Tonight Yusef also attended his first cir<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhDEgzPCDPaytDxmsZHsWio1RJsDWWpIQreMJsbtLSGWvCQd8CBkEBinjbgaVnn7hVKuPFZWZPr_KpDqZjFC83TfoGqrQhOdhTEy0D0ghkmpOxPvFXtfLmPtvd8rF99esRX1abIo7ZB5gNL/s1600/2010-04-06.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 330px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 303px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5458385661465350722" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhDEgzPCDPaytDxmsZHsWio1RJsDWWpIQreMJsbtLSGWvCQd8CBkEBinjbgaVnn7hVKuPFZWZPr_KpDqZjFC83TfoGqrQhOdhTEy0D0ghkmpOxPvFXtfLmPtvd8rF99esRX1abIo7ZB5gNL/s400/2010-04-06.jpg" /></a>cus! Our EI organization gave us free tickets. Somaya was terrified the first good hour of the show--literally screaming "wanna go bye bye" right up until the intermission. Our ever skeptical girl soon warmed and was dancing and clapping by the end. The show was just so so, but we were all mutually impressed by the finale consisting of flaming motorcycles whirring around in a little circular cage type thingy. Fire and torque always rock I guess, no matter who you are.<br /><br />You can tell Yusef was real impressed. I swear that kid can sleep through anything!Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07632541487016020760noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6097430741110292981.post-37507830224833091872010-03-31T12:56:00.000-07:002010-03-31T13:23:21.546-07:00Punched in The GutSo it happened. Someone, a mere aquaintance, was apparently speculating at why I didn't have an abortion when I found out Yusef had Down syndrome. The wife of one of my husband's friends, a doctor of course, and supposedly a person of faith and a Muslim (not that that really matters).<br /><br />Even though this was relayed by my husband from his friend and was a casual conversation that occured in passing, it hurts. It angers me. It's heresay, since I didn't actually hear it out of her mouth, but still I know in my heart of hearts that those words were said.<br /><br />I'll never understand the mentality that my child, a child with Down syndrome, who is perfect and sweet and funny and bright, would be better off dead.<br /><br />He's not a mere thought in the memory of my womb, an enigma. He's real. His heart beats and my own hearts burns with a fierce love for this little boy.<br /><br />I love every inch of him. His big brown teddy bear eyes and his pink tongue that peeks out between his little heart shaped mouth; his thick wavy brown hair that always seems to be in a perpetual state of "bed head"; his pudgy little arms and fat fingers that love to grab my glasses and hair and earrings. I love his little shy smile that appears at the sight of my face or the sound of my voice.<br /><br />More than anything I love him and I love that he's here with me to share this time that is my life. Alhumdullilahi rabil alamin.<br /><br />That is why. That is why I gave him life.Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07632541487016020760noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6097430741110292981.post-61200658178091236592010-03-22T12:05:00.000-07:002010-03-28T15:32:17.593-07:00Good Morning SunshineVery few things can make Mama smile first thing in the morning...<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhIp2IjXptPPjVgPHELW7lnU78SlwU7GF-9uwhOLH7CfWLwkLX2sQdsWWOrK7DsNZBCOiaKqw466QFGH9vtnbP3Mr3FPNkCSJA-0gqdlTSb8EYxHzajUSTwrykSMvNKyVjC3DEMGoTjjnnC/s1600-h/P2240167.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 240px" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5451534681757402370" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhIp2IjXptPPjVgPHELW7lnU78SlwU7GF-9uwhOLH7CfWLwkLX2sQdsWWOrK7DsNZBCOiaKqw466QFGH9vtnbP3Mr3FPNkCSJA-0gqdlTSb8EYxHzajUSTwrykSMvNKyVjC3DEMGoTjjnnC/s400/P2240167.JPG" width="320" height="240" /></a><br /><br /><div>Before I've chugged down <em>at least half</em> a pot of coffee, read the blogs and watched half an hour of CNN...<br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZj9q8x7aIctBdWaQjzF9Y2aFzWRlY7rV7zNJP_yiy0AL9QD9a0-dsMtORoTLe597ZPUs2MIjLVFFN0Ab6yZ1ScmjXfzJV8vDAe96jdMC7m-9SQc0KLmrmNhTHwse3NLacg5YNem-J8ksJ/s1600-h/P2240166.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5451529262684033170" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZj9q8x7aIctBdWaQjzF9Y2aFzWRlY7rV7zNJP_yiy0AL9QD9a0-dsMtORoTLe597ZPUs2MIjLVFFN0Ab6yZ1ScmjXfzJV8vDAe96jdMC7m-9SQc0KLmrmNhTHwse3NLacg5YNem-J8ksJ/s320/P2240166.JPG" /></a><br /><br />But this can... </div></div><br /><br /><div style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; CLEAR: both" class="separator"><a style="MARGIN-LEFT: 1em; MARGIN-RIGHT: 1em" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgMVBE4MbSIeXi5vLc91kCNdi3Trj5jUJgEDE4U-ZyQq1Ku2xEhzw3VtYrMVsi_41Oppdnz3FxvNS3IUIb6kWFP0dQxy-fc32IEWXgbdbniEK28GQ9M7S6q3D-5835hPfMem6qor8Ydixjq/s1600-h/P2240169.JPG" imageanchor="1"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgMVBE4MbSIeXi5vLc91kCNdi3Trj5jUJgEDE4U-ZyQq1Ku2xEhzw3VtYrMVsi_41Oppdnz3FxvNS3IUIb6kWFP0dQxy-fc32IEWXgbdbniEK28GQ9M7S6q3D-5835hPfMem6qor8Ydixjq/s400/P2240169.JPG" width="400" height="300" vt="true" /></a></div>Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07632541487016020760noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6097430741110292981.post-66883238949100441272010-03-18T09:59:00.000-07:002010-03-18T10:14:27.464-07:00We Have a PlanWe've switched Yusef's meds now. We're weaning off the Zonegram and have switched to valproic acid. The plan is to do another round of ACTH if the valproic acid doesn't reduce his seizures.<br /><br />I have no problem with doing another round of ACTH. Yes there are side effects which include one cranky baby for six weeks. The ACTH helped Yusef so much the first time but now the seizure have slowly creeped into daily life again. The hope is the second time they will stop them completely. Obliterate them. Buh Bye.<br /><br />So far the valproic acid has reduced them, but they're still around. Unless there's some miraculous turn of events in the next week and a half (I'm supposed to check in with the PA after this time), we'll see just a reduction of the seizures. They'll still be there. Lurking around in my little guy's brain. I want them gone and plan on being extremely firm about doing the ACTH again when we check back in.<br /><br />If we do go with the ACTH and that doesn't work the second time, then we'll start the ketogenic diet. I've like the idea of this diet for quite some time, but it does require a 5 day hospital stay in it's start, and is not nutritionally complete which means drawing labs regularly to check electrolytes. It also is usually tried for 2-3 months before it is deemed either a success or a failure. So in other words, if it doesn't work then we'll be looking at that time wasted when we could have been doing the ACTH which has helped in the past.<br /><br />So I'll stick with what I know will work at this point.<br /><br />We also have an appointment next week with another neurologist to get a second opinion. If I really like this guy, I might take our care there since I haven't been that happy with the way our care has progressed thus far. I know Dr.'s aren't generally keen on stepping on each other's feet and "stealing" away patients from one another, so we'll see what he says. <br /><br />I have to do what's best for Yusef.<br /><br />In other health care news, Zainah had a follow up chest xray for the "spots" on her lung. It looked clear, but to be safe we're doing another CT tomorrow. So throw up a prayer to Allah, God, Jesus, Krishna, or the diety of your choice, or just send some positive thoughts our way that tomorrow goes well.Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07632541487016020760noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6097430741110292981.post-58695116319603009842010-03-12T19:15:00.000-08:002010-03-18T10:17:45.209-07:00Calling All You Armchair Acitivists<div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgn1FVdXK41AhMSjvwE8oH9-2hh8c4M2LFUKQW3VXAfFaoMEhsxA99Ttv_B1AKWUnITfQGxoonKwprQ7lT-eFjigrh-fXlJW2IlZ19D4ee1rCnU0fToNEZ6416saWGUZPTtVBVYftSDYxy8/s1600-h/images.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 91px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 129px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5447954325581357218" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgn1FVdXK41AhMSjvwE8oH9-2hh8c4M2LFUKQW3VXAfFaoMEhsxA99Ttv_B1AKWUnITfQGxoonKwprQ7lT-eFjigrh-fXlJW2IlZ19D4ee1rCnU0fToNEZ6416saWGUZPTtVBVYftSDYxy8/s320/images.jpg" /></a><br />I'm not exactly what you would call an activist when it comes to the cause of <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">DS</span>. I'm not particularly involved in any of the national groups that advocate for our kids. This little blog is the primary way I like to get the word out on how much my son is loved and adored, and how "normal" our lives are...full of joy and worry and beauty and tears. A Beautiful Life, hence the name I gave to this blog.<br /><br />However, sometimes one has to step up and do what's right.<br /><br />The <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">NDSC</span> recently had a photo contest in which many parents posted their sweet child's pictures in an attempt to show how similar individuals with <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-error">DS</span> are to their typical peers.<br /><br />Well some sick fuck decided it would be funny to post these images on a forum and use them in demeaning and sometimes pornographic ways. I've rarely seen such cruelty and utter disregard for humanity in action. </div><br /><div> </div><br /><div>Earlier today when it was realized that these photos were being used in an inappropriate manner the content was taken down when the online <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-error">DS</span> community became abuzz with what was going on and legal avenues were being explored.<br /><br />Here is Christie's <strong><a href="http://taylorvillethree21.blogspot.com/2010/03/something-awful-hey-bullyya-you-you.html">post</a></strong> on the subject. Her sweet boy was one of those posted on this twisted site. She has some links to the mods of this forum. Kindly visit her blog and take a minute to send out some emails and support her as she seeks legal counsel for <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_4" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">misappropriation</span>.</div><br /><div> </div><br /><div>The original posters on the NSDC site have also been taken down. I'm not sure how I feel about this. Any images we post on the internet can be used for unsavory and just plain sick purposes. I'm a Muslim woman in a headscarf--a figure that has often been abused by hate sites and pornographic sites alike. I have a child with DS, which apparently makes him a target for cruelty and hate as well. However, that doesn't mean I will back down and hide. EVER. We shouldn't have to hide out of fear.</div><br /><div> </div><br /><div>We're here and we deserve and demand respect. We won't hide. And we're not going to let you bully us into submission.<br /></div>Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07632541487016020760noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6097430741110292981.post-84976079006809369462010-03-04T22:41:00.000-08:002010-03-15T16:10:52.722-07:00He's One Now But I Don't Feel Like CelebratingYusef turned one this past week. It’s been an extremely emotional time for me and I admit I’ve been depressed to the point of tears at times. I sometimes feel that I only post negative things on this blog, a fact that I hate. I also want to be an advocate for individuals with Down syndrome and I never want anyone visiting this blog to get the wrong idea. I don’t want to propogate the stereotype of children with DS suffering or their families being paralyzed with grief and medical issues. At the same time, I can’t just write out a lie.<br /><br />This year has been difficult. However, much of the difficulties have had nothing to do with Ds, but rather his debilitating form of epilepsy called infantile spasms that have wreaked havoc on my every waking hour for the last eight months.<br />Children with Down syndrome no more likely to suffer from seizures than their typical peers. However, for those children that do have a seizure disorder, the likelihood of infantile spams being the type of epilepic disorder is much higher in children with DS than in the general population. Indeed, one of the risk factors for infantile spasms is chromosomal abnormalities.<br /><br />The information out there on the internet regarding infantile spasms is incredibly scary and depressing. They are very difficult seizures to control and many of the articles will say that the prognosis is poor with this type of epilepsy. This means that most cases are intractable to current medicines and treatments and most children will have permanent developmental and cognitive delays. Of course, then I have to factor in Down syndrome, and well, I just feel bleak about my child's future and level of functioning he will be able to obtain.<br /><br />While we have seen a reduction in seizure activity after our course of ACTH, and an increase in development, my Yusef has not had anywhere close to a total halt to these seizures. It’s very common to see him have at least a couple “spasms” i.e. seizures every day. Usually with no warning. If he happens to be sitting up in his excersaucer, he’ll have what is called a head drop meaning he loses all control of the muscles in his head and trunk and he’ll literally do a face plant on top of his tray and any toys that might be sitting there. This is, to say the least, traumatic to everyone involved.<br /><br />My son is extremely delayed at this point. At one year old I see other babies with DS sitting, creeping, some even crawling, starting to talk or sign. Yusef is nowhere near sitting. He still doesn’t seem to socialize and smile as much as I would like to see. He’s only recently started rolling around consistently. I know people will say he’ll reach his milestones in his own time, but this is ridiculous. And so now I’m angry.<br /><br />I’m angry at the neurologist for not being nearly aggressive enough with this. He just seems to blow everything off and want to continue the current treatment plan that we’re on which is not working! He is taking a wait and see approach and this is my child’s life, his future we’re talking about.<br /><br />So my husband and I have talked about taking him to somewhere out of community to get another opinion, perhaps to Kansas City. As it turns out there is a second, brand new, pediatric neurologist in our community now! Our primary care pedi is in the process of setting up an appointment with him now and I should hear from them tomorrow.<br /><br />There is still some hope. There are a couple different options that are promising. One is a med called Vigabatrin and the other is the ketogenic diet. Neither of which has our neurologist even mentioned. Not once. It took 5 months for him to even be on board with the ACTH which is a first line treatment, the gold standard really. I am done with this guy.<br /><br />I’m pissed at myself for letting things go on for this long. I just kept thinking it would get better. The Zonegram helped which gave me hope. The ACTH helped quite a bit more which gave me more hope. But neither are enough. I want these seizures gone. Completely. And if I can’t have that, then at least I want the peace of mind in knowing that I did absolutely everything possible and that it is simply out of my hands.Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07632541487016020760noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6097430741110292981.post-91333581747535376332010-03-03T11:17:00.000-08:002010-03-18T10:18:42.438-07:00My Thoughts About TodayThis morning I made a <a href="http://muslimmamatheblog.blogspot.com/2010/03/spread-word-to-end-word.html"><strong>post</strong></a> on my other blog about the "R" word. As I'm sure most of the bloggers within the Down syndrome community know today is the day the Special Olympics have set aside to raise awareness about that word.<br /><br />To me the use of the word is more than just semantics or popular culture. It's an attitude our society has about people with cognitive and other disabilities. It's a reality that parents and individuals effected by a loved on with special needs have to face on a daily basis: Our children and loved one's are marginalized and laughed at by the society we live in.<br /><br />This fact hurts me beyond all else when I look at my son. When I think of his extra chromosome, the one that resides in every cell in his body, the one that gives him his almond shaped wide set eyes and his short little legs propped up with the cutest little feet, society is what hurts me. Not that chromosome. It's the judgement and exclusion from this society that my child was born into.<br /><br />Frankly, I don't know if we'll ever see attitudes change, at least in my or my son's lifetime. I guess all I can do is strive to change the attitudes of the people around me, the few souls that I collide with in my own little microcosm. I can only strive to give my child the best, expect great things from him, demand respect and inclusion from the people around him, try to change hearts one at a time.<br /><br />That's the least I can do for you Yusef. I know you will do the same.Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07632541487016020760noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6097430741110292981.post-50680962576649121122010-02-23T22:44:00.001-08:002010-03-18T10:19:20.633-07:00WorriedWe just got back from a little getaway up to Kansas City. The hubs works so much and runs two of his own businesses so it's extremely rare that he can get away for any meaningful vacation time. Actually, it's a point of contention between us, but I won't get into that here.<br /><br />Anyway, we all had a great time and the kids thought the motel room which was really just a really crummy, run down Super 8 was the greatest thing ever. Yes, we really need to get them out more.<br /><br />I also got a new digital camera because I was wondering why my pics always come out so blurry and then I realized the old one literally only has 3 mega pixels so I decided it was high time for an upgrade. I bought one with 10 mega pixels in excellent used condition and got quite a deal. It also has a decent amount of zoom power on it which I really wanted so I can catch the kids in the act without them realizing I have the camera out because then they usually get shy or try to pose for the camera and I want to catch them in their natural cuteness. The only thing is it didn't come with the USB cable and come to find out it is a 2.o cable which is different than the ones I have. I actually had no idea there was differend types of USB's. So now I have to buy that. And then, I promise, promise, promise I will post some pics.<br /><br />So anyway, the last 3 weeks have been stressful to say the least. First we were all sick. Then Yusef was in the hospital overnight with RSV. He's doing great now but then I got sick and <del>wanted</del> felt like I was going to die and turned out to be strep throat which hubby promptly got. Now see, this is why husband and wives shouldn't be kissing! Anyway, a course of antibiotics and prednisone later, I actually feel human again. Thankfully, the kids somehow managed not to get it.<br /><br />In the midst of all this, Zainah had also been sick and had this nasty cough that just would not go away. You may or may not know Zainah is a cancer survivor and is in remission so to speak from a tumor that was found on her kidney. She had the entire kidney removed and went through chemo. So anyway, she had one of her routine CT scans and the next day the oncologist called me and said something funny showed up on one of her lungs and the radiologist felt it was either a mass or a pneumonia. I didn't think to ask <span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-size:180%;color:#cc0000;">why the hell couldn't the radiologist tell the difference</span>.</span> This was at the exact time hubby had her at the doctor's office for the cough. So now she's on antibiotics for what we presume is a pneumonia but the seeds of fear and panic have sprouted.<br /><br />Cancer is the devil. It is like a dark shadow that follows you even to your dreams and never goes away. It's the bogeyman that can pop up at any time.<span style="font-size:180%;"> <span style="color:#cc0000;">I hate it</span></span>. Leukemia is one of my worst fears for Yusef. We all know that in life there are no guarantees and horrible things can happen. We put it out of our minds so we can function and stay sane. But when the fear rubs up against you, into your pores, clinging, it's hard. Real hard.<br /><br />People sometimes tell me I'm so strong, they just don't know how I do it and I always chuckle; Because really, does a Mom have any other choice. I'd do anything for my children. Anything. For now I just hold them tight, soak in their smell, revel in the sounds of their laughter, bask in the warmth of their little bodies...feel. Just feel them. And love them.Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07632541487016020760noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6097430741110292981.post-72096332297340920262010-02-01T07:56:00.000-08:002010-03-18T10:20:00.088-07:00Back to ourselvesJust a quick note and update. We've had our follow up EEG and it is still showing some seizure activity, but it looks "a hundred times better". We've not been able to actually see any of the seizures since the ACTH. While things still aren't perfect (whatever that is), I'm thrilled that I've got my little man back. He seems to have awoken from a daze and is interacting with all of us. We're having so much fun!<br /><br />Back to the neurologist in 2 months for a follow up.<br /><br />I'll post some more pictures in the near future, I promise. I've been a horribly lazy blogger lately.Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07632541487016020760noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6097430741110292981.post-23527657151996481212009-12-29T21:59:00.001-08:002009-12-29T22:05:33.868-08:00Finishing up the ACTHWe're winding down on the ACTH treatments now. I'm giving the injections every other day this week and Thursday is his last shot! <br /><br />For much of the course, we've seen really no improvement. In fact, for much of the last 6 weeks, Yusef's seizures and symptoms have actually been worse. <br /><br />However, this week he's suddenly come out of his fog again and is smiling, cooiing and laughing! Yes, for the first time in his life I've heard his laugh! I can't tell you how happy that makes me; How my heart soars with pride, my own face reflecting his joy.<br /><br />Right now, I'm cautiously optimistic...Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07632541487016020760noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6097430741110292981.post-28811179026052744562009-12-06T19:07:00.000-08:002010-03-27T22:21:00.381-07:00Starting ACTHIt's been a while since I've updated this blog and alot has happened.<br /><br />The meds that Yusef was on for the infantile spasms just simply aren't working. His last two EEG's continued to show frequent seizure activity. Developmentally we are at a total standstill which is the most frustrating thing that has gone on. I'd say my 10 month old is still at a 3 month level, even regressing since this all began 6 months ago.<br /><br />So two and a half weeks ago, we started the ACTH treatments. ACTH or adrenocorticotropic hormone is a treatment which is sometimes effectivce with IS for reasons not understood by medical science. The cost of the six week treatment is well over 100,000 dollars. No that is not a typo. It's craaazy. Apparently, Questor is the only drug company that manufactures it, and since it used to treat a rare condition, they can charge whatever they want! Well yay, for them, and thank God, thank God, we have decent prescription coverage.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi_foVAgbtKiT8jUpgcy4BMk7WsgZ96njVra6403cWJTcruEsY1QXATPpNilOlH7SDDQbC6fbYCSNj_4iwuen2v1Usc85wNatwItoU1s9DLMWVsfS7mvwtYMBfzfVkHcOpUT8QLYXJ2JXgs/s1600-h/345.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5412752010738514018" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi_foVAgbtKiT8jUpgcy4BMk7WsgZ96njVra6403cWJTcruEsY1QXATPpNilOlH7SDDQbC6fbYCSNj_4iwuen2v1Usc85wNatwItoU1s9DLMWVsfS7mvwtYMBfzfVkHcOpUT8QLYXJ2JXgs/s400/345.JPG" /><br /><p align="center"></a><em>These two vials costs $93,000, and there's more to come</em></p><br /><p align="left">It's quite stressfull to even have these vials in my house. I'm deathly afraid there's going to be a fire or something. Of course, even more stressfull is jabbing my sweet boy in the leg with a needle every morning.</p><br /><p align="left">The treatment is a six week course. We started at the highest dose 3 weeks ago, and are tapering down each week. The first week Yusef did great. He immediately became more alert and began cooing and gooing like never before. He had a light in his eye. He looked us in the face and truly studied us for what seemed like the first time. Then last week the insidious seizures started again, and he again became like a zombie, spaced out, seemingly oblivious to the world. Since then, the seizures have come and gone. One day, I'll see seizures, and the next he'll be back again, alert. He still hasn't smiled for what has seems like months. He's still never laughed.</p><br />ACTH is still considered the gold standard in treating IS, but there are still some treatment options that I'm quite interested in, namely the ketogenic diet which has shown to be as effective in some studies. There is also a drug called vigabatrin. I'm also seriously thinking about taking him to Children's Mercy in KC to get a second opinion as I fell like this Dr. has been dragging his feet with this. This has gone on now for 5 months! Why did we drag our feet so long before starting the ACTH and why did he never mention this ketogenic diet? I'm still learning about this, but I know that it will be the next step if this treatment doesn't work. I feel in my heart, it's not going to. And now I feel trapped since we're right in the middle of the ACTH and I feel guilty because I should have taken him for another opinion sooner when we weren't seeing results earlier in this journey. Then again, this could all be the angry rantings of a desperate mother.<br /><p align="left">This has been a heartwrenching experience and it isn't over yet. In some ways it feels like getting the diagnosis all over again, the same fears and grief, and in between glimmers of hope.</p>Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07632541487016020760noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6097430741110292981.post-31912622808702451762009-11-07T21:10:00.000-08:002009-11-07T21:14:57.421-08:00Make a Little Boy's Last Christmas SpecialThis message came from a fellow blogger Salma whose blog can be found <a href="http://alsultanaa.blogspot.com/">here</a>.<br />Please take the time to make a little boy's day!<br /><br />I just learned about a 5 year old boy named Noah Biorkman who is in the last stages of a 2 year battle with Neuroblastoma Cancer. His family is celebrating Christmas next week and Noahs request is to get lots of Christmas cards.<br /><br />Please let's make this little warrior's wish come true.<br /><br />Send cards to:<br /><br />Noah Biorkman<br /><br />1141 Fountain View Circle<br /><br />South Lyon, Mi 48178<br /><br />Lets see how many cards<br />we can get together for this brave little boy.<br /><br />Thank You and God Bless.<br /><br />Please also consider posting this very urgent message to your blogs.Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07632541487016020760noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6097430741110292981.post-42473440897951986812009-10-28T22:02:00.000-07:002010-03-18T10:20:58.406-07:00I just wanted to share this site <a href="http://kidswithalittleextra.blogspot.com/">A Little Extra by Connie Wenk</a>. She takes the most extraordinary pictures of children with DS. It's such a gift to have these children in our lives and she says it so beautifully in her pictures.<br /><br />Here's one:<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgldKP4myVji16mH2tc6kUhOoxTRPACEwkzErhXh1xUxD5iFblwXRRYQrxgTO7ZEc9tPetdZg2UKRZWt4EDCmKmKPs7oTZlo4Ox7IxeFGCN3LSqLU3Xp9XPL4e_XIjo7U3XJo658vMNQods/s1600-h/Sarah_01.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 271px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgldKP4myVji16mH2tc6kUhOoxTRPACEwkzErhXh1xUxD5iFblwXRRYQrxgTO7ZEc9tPetdZg2UKRZWt4EDCmKmKPs7oTZlo4Ox7IxeFGCN3LSqLU3Xp9XPL4e_XIjo7U3XJo658vMNQods/s400/Sarah_01.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5397883447085937186" /></a>Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07632541487016020760noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6097430741110292981.post-60952352655302162042009-10-28T21:30:00.000-07:002009-10-28T21:39:39.651-07:00We've Got Ourselves a Big EaterI started feeding Yusef solid's a couple monthes back. I wanted to get him into it slowly due to his seizures and just generally being in a fog all the time. I have to admit part of it was sheer laziness on my part as feeding babies has got to be one of the most monotomous tasks I can think of. I'm always so glad when they can start feeding themselves. <br /><br />But a couple weeks back I realized that this is the one thing I can control and that we can work on. To my delight, it didn't take any work at all as it seems he's just a natural eater. In fact he loves to eat anything and everything. Three meals a day, he sits down with us and indulges in rice cereal and prunes or oatmeal and peaches. So here we are, officially in the club of big boy eaters!<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiTwXeri-Z1J250as7kp-4G6LK6vMLvitX5qlqUiZLrEBQ8Omcy8dhMAVHNIiCZi-H8xTr82Xrhpt2GJCW8HcWLm0FDb0GfqcYauq8Bd2UO_osFniCAkVxtVhq-PouvRhcyGZODFSg-GUmc/s1600-h/P1010215.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiTwXeri-Z1J250as7kp-4G6LK6vMLvitX5qlqUiZLrEBQ8Omcy8dhMAVHNIiCZi-H8xTr82Xrhpt2GJCW8HcWLm0FDb0GfqcYauq8Bd2UO_osFniCAkVxtVhq-PouvRhcyGZODFSg-GUmc/s400/P1010215.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5397875513202437282" /></a>Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07632541487016020760noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6097430741110292981.post-63946238851960147602009-10-15T23:17:00.000-07:002009-10-16T00:32:40.801-07:00Yusef's First Camping TripMy Dad's been in town all week, and as is our usual fall tradition, we went camping out on the lake. Before I had children, we would rough it in a tent and sleeping bag, etc, but nowadays we rent a cabin. It's complete with all the modern ammenities and creature comforts which makes camping with young children much more enjoyable and certainly easier.<br /><br />The drive out is a beautiful one. I've often heard people say that Kansas is so boring and flat, but I find it beautiful. Sure, it doesn't have the majesty of the Rocky's or the wonders of Yosemite, but it does have a very real and subtle beauty. My favorite part of my state is the flint hills--a unique place that is the home to the nations largest remaining tract of tallgrass prairie. I'm a prairie girl alright. I just love it. These pics don't do it justice by any means.<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiFFuTeRLrYDuvccbHOmR6Owae-OAiZ9BtjhGuvPk7fOkrrhhuh7Z04-J8n4XgJGjwsQAagcjKz7TvZOJP0xht1zNUm7PeZYGq0C33Q1Oox09-LnPfc2aft6MRzXBnwSV9c5Jp8YdxJUyvN/s1600-h/Picture+300.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5393080666564159506" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiFFuTeRLrYDuvccbHOmR6Owae-OAiZ9BtjhGuvPk7fOkrrhhuh7Z04-J8n4XgJGjwsQAagcjKz7TvZOJP0xht1zNUm7PeZYGq0C33Q1Oox09-LnPfc2aft6MRzXBnwSV9c5Jp8YdxJUyvN/s400/Picture+300.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgv5L5quMWUHG2aCT149O8t_7gjNqP8heop-7C1Pfmm4zWgJNgXYvgspUwgRpUUpffSk-kKhTUexrNwpq0l3_oTyucBy_nS_CUfXTKwR5YauHoznrK_KzpEX62Xx9bMR2yffdga5scsY_x4/s1600-h/Picture+301.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgv5L5quMWUHG2aCT149O8t_7gjNqP8heop-7C1Pfmm4zWgJNgXYvgspUwgRpUUpffSk-kKhTUexrNwpq0l3_oTyucBy_nS_CUfXTKwR5YauHoznrK_KzpEX62Xx9bMR2yffdga5scsY_x4/s400/Picture+301.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5393082683180483746" /></a><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjYdDhfSf0ox1_A3arKbWN8ep5B6-g27zF789649RCnzPbECkVqmV7PiYdp8uYxS5TK4avpCxT8rPT8feA3FXoTa9q_JNLtvd_84OSZOSIa10neTJfSC3bVMYPzvfk33F-xtQCP_OUYbH6P/s1600-h/Picture+309.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjYdDhfSf0ox1_A3arKbWN8ep5B6-g27zF789649RCnzPbECkVqmV7PiYdp8uYxS5TK4avpCxT8rPT8feA3FXoTa9q_JNLtvd_84OSZOSIa10neTJfSC3bVMYPzvfk33F-xtQCP_OUYbH6P/s400/Picture+309.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5393083797491442178" /></a><br /><br />Apparently deer really like the prairie as well because we hit one on the way in! Thank God my dad was driving and didn't panic and no one got hurt. Well, no humans got hurt, the dear deer didn't fair as well. The front left hand side of the van sustained considerable damage, but amazingly after filing a police report for insurance purposes, we managed to drive out of there and onto the lake!<br />The van<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxoQhdTn6RCpYpAjrKRh-Q9emNm79KRXQx2HJa0Iw1VgaaPNRlOaVzKvnn2IEtrVNMFbhRBU59VJTo4Kzis6cwC64WB2EQR3p4jtC8lpw93PI3QGBGnSnT-nJCMe4LsX6iUJM7z8hyup1r/s1600-h/Picture+229.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxoQhdTn6RCpYpAjrKRh-Q9emNm79KRXQx2HJa0Iw1VgaaPNRlOaVzKvnn2IEtrVNMFbhRBU59VJTo4Kzis6cwC64WB2EQR3p4jtC8lpw93PI3QGBGnSnT-nJCMe4LsX6iUJM7z8hyup1r/s400/Picture+229.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5393084226655542610" /></a><br /><br />Actual deer hair in the rim of the tire. I cannot believe it didn't blow.<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhVp-BE9LqeeuQFOXkfrmHmpKT09-U8fVs_Lbya4ju7uO1fA-7siWRo3TN8HwNGkTfcVDR6h7ZidhOxBEn0r572BoCivPMdW0oeX9K8RIXQg1psB84LG1Ge-LnioZHA-tWyKXeoEMvzoobo/s1600-h/Picture+272.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhVp-BE9LqeeuQFOXkfrmHmpKT09-U8fVs_Lbya4ju7uO1fA-7siWRo3TN8HwNGkTfcVDR6h7ZidhOxBEn0r572BoCivPMdW0oeX9K8RIXQg1psB84LG1Ge-LnioZHA-tWyKXeoEMvzoobo/s400/Picture+272.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5393084660574024162" /></a><br /><br />It was a cold and dreary day, but as soon as we got to camp we made a campfire of course!<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgxiXq2b0sQzR4AKPsP2h12ik5nOyE9wOB68g9MIsNvTdIIvyTU-udXA1FEYFrHRZQtF9iVdZ7u-83jSAmRrjituJeUm23GNuzGqa8Fx2Xkgq2caeq4SGry-H1T9_o49QWeOLKvY6KoymLp/s1600-h/Picture+273.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgxiXq2b0sQzR4AKPsP2h12ik5nOyE9wOB68g9MIsNvTdIIvyTU-udXA1FEYFrHRZQtF9iVdZ7u-83jSAmRrjituJeUm23GNuzGqa8Fx2Xkgq2caeq4SGry-H1T9_o49QWeOLKvY6KoymLp/s400/Picture+273.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5393085379730771362" /></a><br /><br />Our cabin and the view off the front porch<br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhb0LWm0JR5BKFmkwRYc6hqqVaxWHdEDUC7ct5wmvI9q9mHjYLS3VMpNJJ4RkoIVl3FEFJoGGOFXAgm0-MSPfULt0fIq0xeW5EFBWZ8quixlLlAhYFRDFylS7YgGZNMd5eFqIm4S8aUCGkk/s1600-h/Picture+219.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhb0LWm0JR5BKFmkwRYc6hqqVaxWHdEDUC7ct5wmvI9q9mHjYLS3VMpNJJ4RkoIVl3FEFJoGGOFXAgm0-MSPfULt0fIq0xeW5EFBWZ8quixlLlAhYFRDFylS7YgGZNMd5eFqIm4S8aUCGkk/s400/Picture+219.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5393085818450773746" /></a><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiW9LpyqrspcKugM6MoTjvr8i4Kf8iilgfRp68re0_kKlSqS3msREqbFtXvT5YuGLU0kfphtgLyJdd4g04bW6snYKfksv3A_fqxaSlOrSOYd7NOIZd0TZZr4pORUQmVBNq3oKhUVri9m8G7/s1600-h/Picture+224.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiW9LpyqrspcKugM6MoTjvr8i4Kf8iilgfRp68re0_kKlSqS3msREqbFtXvT5YuGLU0kfphtgLyJdd4g04bW6snYKfksv3A_fqxaSlOrSOYd7NOIZd0TZZr4pORUQmVBNq3oKhUVri9m8G7/s400/Picture+224.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5393086149770486034" /></a><br /><br />We went to the playground and let the kids run off some energy. <br /><br />Here's Yusef with Mommy all bundled up and cuddling in his sling.<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhH-k0AF2kZnktBSqXWMo97-qBERqIMtKPdIfc9_KjcjB3znldh0Z01AO4QjMb7EDgwWuufg_t6wdcKedvtQ_3ZpV85IQtJqxYPS6bnZe7YLL0Sec7-S9RWRnMhYm2dNKXyFHNVB9HpGHDQ/s1600-h/Picture+246.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 287px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhH-k0AF2kZnktBSqXWMo97-qBERqIMtKPdIfc9_KjcjB3znldh0Z01AO4QjMb7EDgwWuufg_t6wdcKedvtQ_3ZpV85IQtJqxYPS6bnZe7YLL0Sec7-S9RWRnMhYm2dNKXyFHNVB9HpGHDQ/s400/Picture+246.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5393090225006201954" /></a><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhbPRhqFOjwquBZB_tBPjxsQ_CmITUyhGfqhUDcOJ4eifhgweDGzKQcbhlrc-EEOXL9VnPp2sYFQUREpIvMCaZZQwODSJU-v5qHjfM82e9EfKySvW15HS7wYfKx371WsC8C2TFg_LOYsrsj/s1600-h/Picture+260.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhbPRhqFOjwquBZB_tBPjxsQ_CmITUyhGfqhUDcOJ4eifhgweDGzKQcbhlrc-EEOXL9VnPp2sYFQUREpIvMCaZZQwODSJU-v5qHjfM82e9EfKySvW15HS7wYfKx371WsC8C2TFg_LOYsrsj/s400/Picture+260.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5393087052951172098" /></a><br /><br />Later, it was time for some serious hot dog roasting<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnOFjn3E3Vdz3aK1de3WOq0tBhCAYxePCYNY0MGilxAneZEcJw3C3YHuShMx-6suNfLxBaywad8jzI3laMJovO4dfq3AavqG1bYhZ_c0lhf6QrQxYky7PKNXogrZNtmrCcjzsim8sq6Zpm/s1600-h/Picture+277.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnOFjn3E3Vdz3aK1de3WOq0tBhCAYxePCYNY0MGilxAneZEcJw3C3YHuShMx-6suNfLxBaywad8jzI3laMJovO4dfq3AavqG1bYhZ_c0lhf6QrQxYky7PKNXogrZNtmrCcjzsim8sq6Zpm/s400/Picture+277.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5393087395756381794" /></a><br /><br />And after dark, s'more makin' of course. I like my marshmallows nice and dark, like they literally have to catch on fire to be considered done!<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEid78G5SpmAMPk-uOuq3_3-OCKiGb5BYBJ6w4vXc1iRgkj3ppOcoejBfe6UWzXZyRNCd-e5f9JmCRuNcD5Ob2elFIrZJKplqN8shyphenhyphencmCufMvahCnhRS5auMtFcH5YVECJOqxCoHAT1fyzpC/s1600-h/Picture+280.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEid78G5SpmAMPk-uOuq3_3-OCKiGb5BYBJ6w4vXc1iRgkj3ppOcoejBfe6UWzXZyRNCd-e5f9JmCRuNcD5Ob2elFIrZJKplqN8shyphenhyphencmCufMvahCnhRS5auMtFcH5YVECJOqxCoHAT1fyzpC/s400/Picture+280.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5393091305976178066" /></a><br /><br />The kids having a blast with their glow sticks<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiiX9QLzkiXAXTU40YQO52hwudr5WYo5VyX94Mz_ud9bM8IemOdIGgbcL6pamSgBca5mw954KowSUzpC5rZCiZUuPsBJWw5MbVQZG9Zs8C7ehDNzcZJvmQTes24iG_YVayHVcFa0GjijxQm/s1600-h/Picture+289.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiiX9QLzkiXAXTU40YQO52hwudr5WYo5VyX94Mz_ud9bM8IemOdIGgbcL6pamSgBca5mw954KowSUzpC5rZCiZUuPsBJWw5MbVQZG9Zs8C7ehDNzcZJvmQTes24iG_YVayHVcFa0GjijxQm/s400/Picture+289.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5393091704349391778" /></a><br /><br />I would have loved to have been able to stay more than just one night, but we had to get back to reality, school, and life. So that's it. Our annual family camping trip, and Yusef's first, with many more to come, inshallah.Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07632541487016020760noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6097430741110292981.post-88650852927176705362009-10-09T01:44:00.000-07:002009-10-09T02:00:45.826-07:00First the Good NewsThe Good News:<br />Somaya is doing much better. We spent 6 hours in the ER Friday night getting IV antibiotics. They also gave her some morphine because she was in so much pain and Tylenol for the fever. The doctor said she could be admitted to give her another dose of antibiotics in 24 hours or we could go home with our current oral antibiotics and some Lortab. I didn't want to spend any more time in the hospital so I opted for going home and thankfully she's doing fine now--back to her old feisty self.<br /><br />The Bad News:<br />Yusef's EEG still shows frequent seizure activity. We saw the neurologist on Monday and he thinks it's definitely a good sign that we're not seeing clinical seizures so he wants to give it 6 more weeks and redo the EEG. If at this time, Yusef is still showing seizure activity, we'll go ahead with the ACTH treatments. This also explains why we're not seeing any progression in his milestones and the limited interaction.<br /><br />ACTH (adrenocorticotropic hormone) is generally a very effective treatment for infantile spasms. However, it comes with a whole host of scary side effects. Everything from irritability, to gastrointestinal bleeding, to sepsis.<br /><br />The Dr. said these would be given weekly, and that I could do these at home. He knows I'm a nurse and I have worked with him before in the professional setting. I'm assuming Yusef will need a PICC line, which again, I've cared for many, many times.<br /><br />Kudos to all you Mom's out there who've had to care for your little ones at home with NO medical training. I remember when Zainah had her Hickman and later a PICC line, how stressful it was caring for them, even with lots and lots of experience. I can't even imagine how intimidating it would be for someone learning everything for the first time.<br /><br />Part of me just wants to get this over with and go ahead with the treatments. I want to see my my boy advancing and working on all his milestones again. Sigh. Patience is a virtue I guess. . .<br /><br />Oh yeah, and now Zainah is sick with stomach cramps, vomiting, and fevers. Blah. I mean, can we catch a break with these kids. Sometimes, you just gotta laugh so you don't cry.Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07632541487016020760noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6097430741110292981.post-49485427736508191822009-10-02T15:55:00.000-07:002009-10-02T16:38:41.560-07:00Update on Yusef's Infantile SpasmsIt occured to me that I never really gave an update on Yusef's progress on his meds. I'm happy to say that the second med we started seems to have done the trick and he's been seizure free for the last several weeks. He's on Kepra 3 times a day and Zonegram twice a day.<br /><br />I have noticed that he seems to be a tad more sleepy since this all started and he hasn't progressed at all developmentally. From what I've learned from other mom's this is to be expected and often happens with the IS. In fact, I think it's safe to say, he's even regressed on a lot of his gross motor milestones. He won't roll over like he was before, and rarely ever smiles. He seems to avoid social contact and sometimes refuses to even look at us and interacts rarely. Our therapist seems to think it's a sensory thing caused from the seizures and meds. However, just the other night I was thrilled when I got several sweet smiles out of him!<br /><br />We've got an appointment Monday with the neurologist and a follow-up EEG--I'll definitely bounce it off of him and see what he says.<br /><br />Hopefully we'll be actually be able to make it to the appointment since big sis Somaya is fairly ill and might have to be admitted into the hospital for IV anitbiotics. She's suffering from a UTI that doesn't seem to be responding to the meds. Her pedi thinks there is a good possibility it's turned into a kidney infection in which case she'll have to be admitted. We do have vesicoureteral reflux in the females in our family. It's essentially what happens when the urine backs back up from the bladder up the ureter and into the kidney. It can cause chronic infections. Zainah and I both had it. Somaya has never been screened for it since she's never had a UTI before. Right now we're just waiting to see if her fever returns tonight and if it does we're to take her to the ER. Her last dose of ibuprofen was at 2:00 and it's now 6:30 so we'll see what happens here in the next few hours.<br /><br />Oh yeah, our buddy walk is tomorrow and unless Somaya makes some type of miraculous recovery, I doubt we'll be able to go. I'm really bummed about this. I was so excited. It seems as if every time our local DS chapter has some big event, one of the kids is sick or there's something else going on. Sigh. I dunno, maybe Somaya will be okay. That's what I'm praying for right now--and my sanity--it's been a rough couple of days...Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07632541487016020760noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6097430741110292981.post-41334267245206100772009-09-23T15:10:00.000-07:002009-09-23T15:39:01.032-07:00First EidThis past Sunday we celebrated the Eid al Fitr. Muslims have two main holidays, the Eid al Fitr and the Eid al Adha. The Eid al Fitr follows the holy month of Ramadan, and the Eid al Aldha follows the haj, or t he pilgramage to Mecca. On these holidays, the entire community gets together in the morning for a prayer which is followed by lots of feasting, gathering, and gift giving. It's an especially fun day for children, not unlike Christmas for my Christian brothers and sisters.<br /><br />This was Yusef's first Eid! He didn't seem to have an opinion of it one way or another, and spent a great deal of the day sleeping. Oh, well someday, he'll look forward to it with glee and excitement like my other kids.<br /><br />Yusef on Eid morning, getting ready to leave for the prayer<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUPSRGs3-sHycdQipooXP0J6_trhgcN9am7mmc8oe_5-TIg0ih7MBcqCRrOehxODRi5q0157ln1EJeu3EQOP5fXTs9JgkJ2Aq1hPFWOk64bQQGtRhRW-2IuhilN2HWIRQOG9igrvan2gtt/s1600-h/yusef.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5384794873123543218" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUPSRGs3-sHycdQipooXP0J6_trhgcN9am7mmc8oe_5-TIg0ih7MBcqCRrOehxODRi5q0157ln1EJeu3EQOP5fXTs9JgkJ2Aq1hPFWOk64bQQGtRhRW-2IuhilN2HWIRQOG9igrvan2gtt/s400/yusef.JPG" /></a><br /><br /><br />Yusef and Mama<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjhvZKoOPHzPzTZJpAN3wWi5nFGLaVNJknhMTRUrccqNM1bHOlPErWD3b4nfWm5GYOcNnqd3Ptb2HezIuqn0QRWZz4JF-4J-ON4a0l1HYHkvYJnhsIr8Ly0EActq5F-juRj91Z8hW8hpEQR/s1600-h/P1010196.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5384795159871132306" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjhvZKoOPHzPzTZJpAN3wWi5nFGLaVNJknhMTRUrccqNM1bHOlPErWD3b4nfWm5GYOcNnqd3Ptb2HezIuqn0QRWZz4JF-4J-ON4a0l1HYHkvYJnhsIr8Ly0EActq5F-juRj91Z8hW8hpEQR/s400/P1010196.JPG" /></a><br /><br />Family picture<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhaQvww_R90iGFvnr6ZPUmjXu9U2WbWy-Goyl3s92SHNLzhcdORrK-i08aJ_ccOl0RtwptOOFiN6OxhwCY5OhEYkmFXeuoejmMYTZX-obZiJ4Z9qSSPPaX6eBSCZWfQ0c675SUj1XtU2Xyh/s1600-h/family.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5384795411282992802" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhaQvww_R90iGFvnr6ZPUmjXu9U2WbWy-Goyl3s92SHNLzhcdORrK-i08aJ_ccOl0RtwptOOFiN6OxhwCY5OhEYkmFXeuoejmMYTZX-obZiJ4Z9qSSPPaX6eBSCZWfQ0c675SUj1XtU2Xyh/s400/family.JPG" /></a><br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#990000;">Eid Mubarek everyone!</span>Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07632541487016020760noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6097430741110292981.post-39668678344375764282009-09-11T20:23:00.001-07:002009-09-11T20:26:38.608-07:00We're Doin Our First Buddy Walk!<div></div><br /><div></div><br /><div>I finally got our team registered today! If anyone is interested in donating here is our team page. I'm so excited!</div><br /><div></div><br /><div><a href="https://www.syssolutions.com/WichitaBuddyWalk/main/Team.aspx?FundraiserId=03ce4553-ed4f-4877-a219-bb45b999f403">https://www.syssolutions.com/WichitaBuddyWalk/main/Team.aspx?FundraiserId=03ce4553-ed4f-4877-a219-bb45b999f403</a></div><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjeBr9VSH_hRE5kyLlyc3OAInLvl-BD_gVRVCVdQxnzAmt0gHnevHRPMjs-y6Qxu40kZXX4TTySToammZyUeEqhUFmuiB8cJn1UOqZ_x2P3Y74CAAMAU3CEZItJds1a5X9tdKtw3WdsX-a5/s1600-h/customImage.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 165px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 140px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5380417038115887186" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjeBr9VSH_hRE5kyLlyc3OAInLvl-BD_gVRVCVdQxnzAmt0gHnevHRPMjs-y6Qxu40kZXX4TTySToammZyUeEqhUFmuiB8cJn1UOqZ_x2P3Y74CAAMAU3CEZItJds1a5X9tdKtw3WdsX-a5/s400/customImage.jpg" /></a>Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07632541487016020760noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6097430741110292981.post-54974315224144294552009-09-11T07:00:00.000-07:002009-09-11T07:35:39.888-07:00For Those With a Prenatal Diagnosis of Down Sydrome<span style="color:#ff6666;"></span><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhLkKWuvkSHlqziFihYCsl26lvZsMD-a1K6mmhU5LczgjBab4ed7lSq84bBXD2_H_OaQYbQhC9obqxqndXD1oXZJjQ4_Min1ewSWf32c8t4KuHPGU9eiA6ou9WO6CZxZESmjYXj2zuWir0e/s1600-h/beautiful_baby_cdss-756468.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5380215423165298978" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhLkKWuvkSHlqziFihYCsl26lvZsMD-a1K6mmhU5LczgjBab4ed7lSq84bBXD2_H_OaQYbQhC9obqxqndXD1oXZJjQ4_Min1ewSWf32c8t4KuHPGU9eiA6ou9WO6CZxZESmjYXj2zuWir0e/s400/beautiful_baby_cdss-756468.jpg" /></a><br />I have more than once noticed that people have made their way to my blogs while googling termination and Down syndrome. If you have found your way to my blog and find yourself with a new and scary diagnosis, I want you to know that there are thousands of women that have been in the same place you find yourself in now.<br /><br />All of us in one way or another found out our child has Down syndrome, rather it be a prenatal diagnosis or after birth. We all understand the feelings of grief, the fear; And on the other side, we all share the intense feelings of love we have for our children.<br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6666;">Please give your chld a chance at life.<br /><br /></span><em>You will love this child with an absolutly pure and overwhelming conviction, one that you might not ever have imagined. This child will teach you more about compassion and humanity than you ever thought possible. If you are a religious person, this child will increase your faith in God and his perfect plan for you.<br /></em><br />If you find yourself here in your darkest hours, please take some time to link to the blogs on my sidebars. There you will find families and children living normal lives, doing normal things. You will also find extraordinary people doing extraordinary things.<br /><br />You might find some little ones with health problems. There you will find an unwavering and loyal support group. You will more often find kids perfectly healthy doing all the things that children do.<br /><br /><span style="color:#66cccc;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="color:#3366ff;">You will find children with Down syndrome lighting up the world around them.</span><br /></span></span><br />So if you find yourself here, and you think that you cannot bear it, you can. Be strong, come to us who are on the other side. We'll support you when you need it.<br /><br /><span style="color:#66ff99;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="color:#33ff33;"><em>Give your child a chance.<br /></em></span><br /></span></span><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiyN9geV0T307Tk-fMkAe1LY7t9jUk9w86Ts0E9pSyPu27E_BjyQ0kZ0Znfn1QmYyuw9U0nV3Tlt0G37f1cgMhFoS1HENwMPn-BMDgKde16c30vDWlB3mOY0kHVKFcsl24esAA46Px5mB0N/s1600-h/baby-in-hands1.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 250px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 250px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5380216769170266194" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiyN9geV0T307Tk-fMkAe1LY7t9jUk9w86Ts0E9pSyPu27E_BjyQ0kZ0Znfn1QmYyuw9U0nV3Tlt0G37f1cgMhFoS1HENwMPn-BMDgKde16c30vDWlB3mOY0kHVKFcsl24esAA46Px5mB0N/s400/baby-in-hands1.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#6633ff;">This child is a miracle. With time you will be able to see through your tears and be honored to witness the miracle that I know.<br /><br /></span>Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07632541487016020760noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6097430741110292981.post-80754120448473580172009-08-28T17:13:00.000-07:002009-08-29T05:51:53.998-07:00Well the Meds Aren't Exactly WorkingWell we're now on the maximum dose of Keppra and Yusef is still having 0-2 seizures a day. I've been in constant communication with the Dr.'s office and he wants us to come in sooner than was originally planned. So Tuesday we'll go in and discuss what he wants us to do.<br /><br />I'm a little ticked off at the Dr., frankly. When I was there last week, we dicussed the treatment plan and what steps we would take if this med didn't work. He said we could add in another med, I think it was Zonegram. I fully expected him to call out a script for this, but instead he didn't want to make changes in the medication, and just wants to see us in his office. I guess I'll find out more on Tuesday.<br /><br />I'm nervous because I don't know what he's going to say that's any different than what we discussed previously.<br /><br />I've posted a video of a baby having infantile spasms if anyone's interested. It's not my Yusef, sorry I can't figure out how to post my video. I can't get my video to save on my pc so I can publish it. If anyone has any ideas or advice, please post.<br /><br />Sometimes infantile spasms are misdiagnosed or overlooked, so if you have any suspicions about your little one you should call your pediatrician right away. It's also a good idea to video tape any unusual symptoms of behavior if you can, so your pediatrician will know exactly what's going on.<br /><br /><object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/AQ3ZbWPSx1g&hl=en&fs=1&"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/AQ3ZbWPSx1g&hl=en&fs=1&" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object>Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07632541487016020760noreply@blogger.com9